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  • Writer's pictureKalen J Acquisto

 ​​I just got engaged, now what?!


















Congratulations on your engagement! This is an exciting time, and while the journey ahead is filled with joy, there are a few key steps to take after getting engaged:



  • Share the News:

  • Before diving into wedding planning, take the time to share the exciting news with your family and close friends. Consider a special announcement or celebration to mark the occasion.

  • Enjoy the Moment:

  • Take a moment to savor the joy of being engaged. It's a significant milestone in your life, so cherish the special bond you and your partner share.

  • Discuss Priorities:

  • Have a conversation with your partner about your wedding priorities. Discuss the size of the celebration, preferred wedding style, and any must-haves for both of you. Values are CRITICAL here.

  • Set a Tentative Date:

  • While you don't need to choose a specific date right away, having a general time frame in mind can help as you start the planning process.

  • Create a Budget:

  • Establish a rough budget for your wedding. This will guide your decisions moving forward and help you prioritize your spending.

  • Start a Wedding Binder or Digital Folder:

  • Keep yourself organized by starting a wedding binder or a digital folder. Include inspiration, checklists, and any notes to help you stay on track.

  • Research Venues and Vendors:

  • Begin researching potential wedding venues and vendors based on your preferences and budget. Consider the location, capacity, and amenities offered. Choose humans who you want to work with. You may love the photography style, but you better love the photographer as well. 

  • Explore Wedding Styles:

  • Explore different wedding styles and themes. This can help you narrow down your preferences and make decisions about the overall aesthetic of your celebration.

  • Think About Guest List:

  • Begin drafting a preliminary guest list. While it doesn't have to be finalized immediately, having an idea of the number of guests will be helpful for venue selection.

  • Consider Hiring a Wedding Planner:

  • If you're feeling overwhelmed, hiring a wedding planner can alleviate stress and help you navigate the planning process more smoothly.There are options for full planning, partial planning, day of planning, etc!

  • Insure Your Ring:

  • Consider getting insurance for your engagement ring. This provides protection in case of loss, theft, or damage.

  • Celebrate with an Engagement Party:

  • Host an engagement party to celebrate with friends and family. It's a great opportunity for both sides to come together and share in your joy.


Remember, there's no rush, and every couple's journey is unique. Enjoy the process, and feel free to take things at your own pace. Happy wedding planning!

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